women may want to be looked at, but some may feel slimed or even violated. . For those who achieve remission of the disorder for five years, scientists report, the likelihood of relapse is no greater than that among the general population. It can feed what is essentially a stash of mental pornography even if they have been successful in giving up an actual pornography addiction. And typically, tolerance to the substance increases, as the body adapts to its presence. Addiction is a condition in which a person engages in use of a substance or in a behavior for which the rewarding effects provide a compelling incentive to repeatedly pursue the behavior despite detrimental consequences. And to some extent the level objectification of women that is involved in ogling is an everyday occurrence in our culture.
The lack of ability to tolerate distress or other strong feelings is linked to addiction. There is no one type associated with addiction, either. Her partner is a recovering sex addict who ogles women. . A man who cant help staring at other women may be just a rude guy or his ogling may be part of a pattern of sexually compulsive behavior. .
I saw one sex addict who admitted that he ogled in this way; that he looked at women from the neck down. . There are a million ways for a man to brush aside your concern and make you feel that you are overreacting. .
The three second rule, sex addicts in recovery are told to follow the three second rule, meaning that although you cant help glancing at or noticing someone, you can give yourself three seconds to stop looking. . Still others opt for clinical-based recovery through the services of credentialed professionals. Many wives and partners of sex addicts complain of their partner ogling other women. . These also could be just very brief glimpses of someones cleavage or of someone in an every day position that is sexually titillating to the viewer. What the recovering addict in denial has failed to see is that other people can and do change and that their sexually addictive tendencies are out of their control. . She describes also: a different person I know who captures image impressions of womens bodies and files them away mentally for later fantasy use. However, sobriety from chemical dependency does not necessarily mean delving into the hang-ups that the addict has with regard to intimate relationships. . They feel deprived of sex, even rejected by the women they look at and this paves the way for them to escape into their other sexually addictive behaviors such as internet porn. These denial mechanisms have just changed their content but not their basic form. . Continuing use is typically harmful to relationships and work or school obligations. These may seem very obvious or more subtle, but these attachment issues produce addiction prone people who have a long-standing mistrust and avoidance of intimate bonding.